Promiscuous Women Tend to be Unhappy
By Daniel Miessler on March 28th, 2008: Tagged as Culture | Women
A study has shown that depressed women tend to have more sex. This is not a surprise to me, nor is it to many people.
This is going to sound horrible, but women usually have lots of sex with lots of people in order to fill a hole (I told you). I’ve seen the rushing undercurrent of damaged goods below the surface of many sexually open women; it’s quite conspicuous once you know what you’re looking at.
And yes, I know my title isn’t what the study found, but I think it’s true as well. Unhappy women have more sex, and the women having the most promiscuous sex tend to be unhappy.
So what does this mean for the average single guy? Take note of any woman throwing her stuff around; she quite likely has issues with complicated names.:
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as a connoisseur of miserable women, I can explain.
They’re promiscuous because no one wants their sorry ass around once the condom’s been flushed! They just ruin the afterglow with talk of having babies… you know, something that CANT leave them.
They are usualy “deep” OR “stupid” OR “both”
They love them some Richard ;) GIGIDY GIGIDY YEAH
Comment by Richard Corsale — 3/28/2008 @ 7:56 pm
I’ve never thought about this much… but looking at some of the girls I know, it’s definitely true. Good thing a couple of them realize this fact and are working towards recovery.
Comment by Shenlon — 3/28/2008 @ 8:36 pm
Steven: “So you were bar-tending at a strip club?”
Girl: Yeah.
Steven: Hot
Girl: Everyone of ‘em’s got Daddy issues though.
Steven: Ew.
Comment by Steven G. Harms — 3/29/2008 @ 6:16 am
Change “women” to “people” and you’ve got an equally true statement (for all the same reasons).
Comment by Carl M — 3/30/2008 @ 11:43 pm
Actually, no, Carl. I don’t think that’s right. In fact I think the point is the opposite.
Men are often rather balanced and happy while being promiscuous. Or, in other words, finding a man that sleeps with lots of women doesn’t necessarily indicate that he’s troubled.
Comment by Daniel Miessler — 3/31/2008 @ 4:45 am
I’ll correct my statement somewhat. Remove “for all the same reasons.” The reasons are not the same. But I would quarrel with your last paragraph a bit. From whose perspective are the men “balanced and happy” ?
Of course when you include the modifier “doesn’t necessarily” I have to agree with the statement, but can’t you add those words to the original statement? That is: Finding a woman that sleeps with lots of men doesn’t necessarily indicate that she’s troubled.
Comment by Carl M — 3/31/2008 @ 11:51 am
My term/label for those types of women in my life has been “toxic.” And, it does seem to generalize to men (toxicity).
The question I ask myself is, have I ever seemed toxic to others when I was “frisky” and depressed?
Can you see these types of people if you are one of them? Are we more likely to be attracted to people with baggage if we have baggage ourselves? I would think so.
Comment by Richard — 4/1/2008 @ 7:32 pm
It’s the exact opposite for men. Men who aren’t sleeping with a lot of women tend to be unhappy and have issues.
Comment by Robert — 5/6/2008 @ 5:13 pm